hmM...i tink knowing how to handle and relate to people is v impt..i mean,u have to know the right and suitable way of talking and creating a friendly relationship with another person..and for each person,it differs.if u fail to handle such fragile relationships with care,it reflects badly on u and in the end,the relationship may just fall away..whether it is at work in future,or simply handling new frens,character alwaz comes to play..if u have a lousy character,it shows when u relate to pple..the bottom line>>>its ur upbringing...something which we cannot thoroughly control cuz it starts when we are so young..that's y,religion is impt too..n sticking to it..sometimes we cant agree wif everything the bible or the scriptures say,but we need a god whu is alwaz there for us...n religion moulds a person's character..for the better..i believe..sigh..problems are meant to make us stronger...*isH*